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Are you single and looking for love? Are you finding it hard to meet the right person? Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests, learning how to enjoy your own company, and appreciating the quiet moments of solitude. For many of us, our emotional baggage can make finding the right romantic partner a difficult journey.

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I used to work in a women's domestic violence shelter, so when I talk about how being too nice can ruin your relationshipI feel those women staring me down from their cots as they wished they had that problem.

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Being too nice can be bad for your relationship. There are many nice ways to be in an unhealthy relationship, and not all of them are centered around abuse, or even negativity, for that relationship. I studied healthy relationships in-depth and talked with countless couples about how to make their relationships stronger, both as a Domestic Violence Victim Advocate and as a Planned Parenthood Certified Responsible Sexuality Educator.

Believe it or not, a lot of persons have problems that stem from being too nice.

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More specifically, those problems are usually about a fear of losing, disappointing, or upsetting the person they love so much. Unfortunately, as the saying goes, if you want to make an omelette, you gotta break a few eggs.

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Or, if you want to be in a healthy relationship, sometimes you have to go to uncomfortable, sad, angry, or disappointed places. That's not to say you should get mean or stop caring so much about your partner.

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But if you're doing any of these things below, you might want to have some realtalk with your partner about how they feelthen maybe tone it down a tad. I've been there, both professionally and personally, so let me guide you through it.

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I am a grown person. I know that I need to eat, take my meds, and pay the Internet bill. My partner likes to ask me if I've done these things a thousand times a week. She only asks me these things so much because she cares about me, and you or your partner probably have the same motivation to care for each other.

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But when you're constantly checking up on your partnerthere can be an unspoken undercurrent of distrust. Distrust in their abilities.

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Distrust in their maturity. Distrust in their reliability. If you do it too much and too often, it can make your partner feel like. I love people who are positive all the time. I admire and envy them. I think they make the world better place. But I don't want to date one.

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Because let's be real. Nobody is that positive all the time. If your partner is always on the sunny side of life, there could be some denial happening.

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At the very least, it seems annoyingly fake. Especially when one partner is going through something terrible. Sometimes, the right thing to do is let the terribleness wash over your partner and just be understanding. If you're really going to connect on an intimate level, you have to both let your guard down at from time to time.

Emotional honesty is important. I know you only want me to take those vitamins because you love me, but I don't want to take them and you can't relationship me. I know, I sound like a petulant child, but as an adult, you have to let your partner make decisions even if you think they're bad decisions. You can't force health foods, you can't make make someone wear mittens when it's cold, and you can't exclude them from big decisions because you person you know what's nice.

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That's not a true, equal partnership, that's a scenario where you're trying to be in person, nice if your intentions are loving and sincere. People pleasing can mean all kinds of things, from never saying no to doing more than your fair share of the housework without complaining. If you're justifying being a people pleaser by telling yourself that you're just spoiling your partner, you'll soon come to realize that you're actually setting up expectations that will lead to resentments and anger. When you never relationship it about you, it's never about you.

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And sometimes it needs to be about you. Know what I mean? KenL. We don't have to do all the loving. You have to be in an equal partnership, emotionally as well as in terms of power and responsibility.

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When two people spend a lot of time together, they're going to disagree. That's just the facts of life. If you consciously never disagree with your partner, you're basically setting up a relationship in which your partner is always right. Not only will it create a burden of a situation that's hard for your partner to live up to, but it will fill you with regret, unfulfilled desires, and resentments.

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Disagreements don't have to be scaryterrible messes with some good communication skills and some patience. They're an essential part of all healthy relationships. Solving problems is almost an instinct to some people. When it's someone you love, if you can solve a problemwhy wouldn't you?

Proof you're being too nice in your relationship

Well, when you solve all of someone's problems for them, what you're actually doing is enabling them to never have the skills to take care of themselves. People have to learn to solve their own problems. It's a basic survival skill. Sometimes you have to let your partner fail or have a bad day.

It sucks, but it's part of life. Even if the bubble you build around your partner is made with love, it's still unhealthy. Overprotective behavior is tricky.

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It can be a loving act based in kindness though still unhealthy or it can be a relationship of power and control. Abusive partners misuse power and person to keep their victims under their thumbs. You might think you're just keeping your partner safe, but in reality, you're trying to control a situation you can't control, like overcompensating for a fear of nice your partner in a car crash by never letting them drive.

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Or using your fear of infidelity to justify never letting your partner go out without you. The take-away here is that just because your actions are loving,that doesn't automatically mean they're healthy. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do in a relationship is take care of yourself.

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